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Caring for Your Aging Loved One

A Caregiver's Guide to Mobility, Home Safety, Insurance, and Navigating the Healthcare System

Stephen wrote this book to distill years of home health experience into practical, real-world guidance for family caregivers — the kind of guidance that usually only comes from having a clinician in the family. It's available now, in ebook format, on Kindle and free with Kindle Unlimited.

Caring for Your Aging Loved One — book cover

You weren't taught how to do this. No one hands you a manual when a parent, spouse, or loved one starts to decline. Instead, you're left piecing together information during rushed doctor's appointments, confusing hospital discharges, and late-night internet searches, all while exhausted, afraid of making the wrong choice, and wondering why everyone else seems to already understand a system that was never actually explained to you.

Caring for Your Aging Loved One is the guide that should have existed from the start. Written by Dr. Stephen Stashevsky, PT, DPT, CEEAA, a physical therapist who has spent nearly a decade working across outpatient clinics, hospitals, skilled nursing facilities, assisted living communities, and more than fifteen home health agencies nationwide, this book translates the fragmented, confusing world of aging care into something you can actually use.

In the Book

What you'll learn

  • The real difference between medical and non-medical home health care, and how to know which one your loved one actually qualifies for
  • How to use community-based resources and advance directives to plan ahead instead of scrambling in a crisis
  • Practical, clinician-tested home modifications that reduce the falls that most often end independence
  • Mobility and transfer techniques that protect your loved one, and protect you, from injury
  • When assisted living or a skilled nursing facility is truly the right next step, and how to navigate that transition
  • How Medicare, Medicaid, Medicare Advantage, and private insurance actually determine what care is covered, denied, or delayed
  • The real difference between palliative care and hospice, why both exist to support comfort and quality of life rather than signal the end, and how to know when either one might help
  • How to work through the guilt, grief, and emotional weight of caregiving, because your feelings are as real and as valid as any medical decision you'll make

This isn't a book written by a marketer or a policy expert with no bedside experience. It's written from the front lines, by someone who has walked into homes, hospital rooms, and family meetings and watched the same story play out again and again: families forced to make life-altering decisions with no one to explain the system to them. Every chapter is grounded in what actually happens in practice, not just what's supposed to happen on paper.

Whether your loved one is fully independent, just beginning to need extra help, transitioning between care settings, or approaching the end of life, this guide meets you exactly where you are. You can read it start to finish, or use it as a reference, returning to the chapter you need the moment you need it.

Caring for an aging loved one is one of the most meaningful roles you may ever take on. It should not also be one of the most confusing. This book exists so you never again have to feel like you're the only one who doesn't already know the answer.

Stephen Stashevsky, PT, DPT, CEEAA
About the Author

Stephen Stashevsky, PT, DPT, CEEAA

Stephen is a Doctor of Physical Therapy with nearly a decade of experience in home health, geriatric care, and clinical education, including time as a Director of Rehabilitation and an Assistant Professor in Indiana University's Doctoral Physical Therapy program. Learn more on the About page.

Table of Contents

What's inside

  • Chapter 1: Living at Home — Medical vs. Non-Medical Home Health Care
  • Chapter 2: Community-Based Resources & Advance Directives
  • Chapter 3: Home Modifications
  • Chapter 4: Mobility
  • Chapter 5: Assisted Living Facilities (ALF)
  • Chapter 6: Skilled Nursing Facilities (SNF)
  • Chapter 7: Navigating Medical Settings
  • Chapter 8: Insurance and Care Coverage
  • Chapter 9: Palliative Care: Supporting Quality of Life During Serious Illness
  • Chapter 10: Hospice Care: Comfort, Dignity, and Support at the End of Life
  • Chapter 11: Guilt, Grief, and the Emotional Journey of Caregiving

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Available now on Kindle, and free to read with Kindle Unlimited.

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